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January 13, 2006

BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN AND THE ROMANCE OF GAYNESS

I confess, I am a “High-grade Non Homophobic.” There, done! Out of the closet at last! I took the homophobia test yesterday and achieved a score of 17, thus putting me in the category of “high-grade non-homophobic,” the average score for white, male college students being around 30 (lower is better). The test was developed by Lester W. Wright, Henry E. Adams, and Jeffrey Bernat, and appeared in an article entitled "Development and Validation of the Homophobia Scale," in the Journal of Psychopathology and Behavioral Assessment, Vol. 21, (1999), No. 4, pp. 337-347. You too can take the test if you are brave enough. [Click HERE]

Although it is always flattering to be acknowledged as a high-grade anything, I thought important to first establish my bona fides before saying the controversial things that I am about to say about “Brokeback Mountain,” Annie Proulx, and gayness.

How was I able to achieve such a benign attitude towards homosexuals and homosexuality? Perhaps it is my age. I am ripe—some would say over-ripe—and ripeness sometimes brings with it a degree of humility when it comes to knowing what is right and true. Another factor might be that as a psychoanalyst and psychiatrist and teacher of such young professionals I have had many opportunities to treat and supervise the treatment of homosexuals—those conflicted about their homosexuality and those unconflicted about their sexuality but unhappy about other aspects of their lives. In the course of these many clinical experiences I was able to learn much about the individual psychology and development of homosexuals and the sociology of the gay life.

“Best picture of the year!”
“Unmissable and unforgettable!”
“Big Hollywood weeper with a beautiful ache at its center.”
“A big sweeping and rapturous Hollywood love story!”
“Hollywood’s first openly gay western.”
“Epic love story!”
“A story of forbidden love.”

For a movie with such rapturous reviews, seven Golden Globe nominations, full page advertisements, two of Hollywood’s newest and brightest stars, a cast of thousands (of sheep), the great mountains of Wyoming (Canada, really), gorgeous Big Sky country, “Brokeback Mountain” turns out to be a disappointingly small movie. Its mise-en-scene wears the story just as surely as Jake Gyllenhaal’s black cowboy hat wears him rather than the other way round.

It’s about the size of, say, “My Beautiful Laundrette,” of a generation ago, in which two young men kiss and make love on screen in a context of social and racial struggle. Controversial in its time, it is now a classic. And no doubt “Brokeback” will win prizes and become a small classic for its niche audience, if for no other reason. The performances are fine and the young men have taken risks for their career, and Hollywood always rewards young actors for taking risks in the service of homosexual values.

It is a movie in which two movie stars pretending to be two poor, dumb, young ranch hands, forced to be alone and isolated with each other for a couple of months, find themselves having sex, which turns out to have tragic consequences. Based on a prize-winning story by Annie Proulx, one of the problems with the movie is that the screen writers are too respectful of Proulx’s story. It is this fidelity to the short story that makes this film, with its awe-inspiring backdrop, seem so small. The story is characterized by emotional minimalism—the young men, Jack and Ennis, are barely articulate even at emotional high points. Much is communicated by silence or enigmatic looks and shrugs. This may work well in short fiction, but the art of writing a short story is different from the art of writing a movie. And after all a short story can only go so far in developing character and creating dramatic conflict.

Annie Proulx (pronounced Proo) is, without a doubt, a first-rate writer. And “Brokeback Mountain” is a good but flawed story. Its flaws emerge out of its origins. “Brokeback began as an examination of country homophobia in the land of the Great Pure Noble Cowboy,” Proulx says on her website. The use of the word “homophobia” in her explanation (about which more later) and the ambivalence towards men expressed in the sarcasm “the land of the Great Pure Noble Cowboy” is expressed more subtly in her story and more flagrantly in the movie that was made from it. Her grievances with men, or at least men who live by “white masculine values,” as she calls them, profoundly influence “Brokeback Mountain.” Perhaps her own personal disappointments with men may have played a part in this, perhaps not. She was married three times, the last “…ended in amiable divorce twenty years later after a long separation, and we remain friends. It gradually dawned on me that I am not well-suited for marriage.”

She elaborates on the origin of the story: “Sometime in early 1997 the story took shape. One night in a bar upstate [Wyoming] I had noticed an older ranch hand, maybe in his late sixties, obviously short on the world’s luxury goods. Although spruced up for Friday night his clothes were a little ragged, boots stained and worn. I had seen him around, working cows, helping with sheep, taking orders from a ranch manager. He was thin and lean, muscular in a stringy kind of way. He leaned against the back wall and his eyes were fastened not on the dozens of handsome and flashing women in the room but on the young cowboys playing pool. Maybe he was following the game, maybe he knew the players, maybe one was his son or nephew, but there was some¬thing in his expression, a kind of bitter longing, that made me wonder if he was country gay. Then I began to consider what it might have been like for him—not the real person against the wall, but for any ill-informed, confused, not-sure-of-what-he-was-feeling youth growing up in homo¬phobic rural Wyoming. A few weeks later I listened to the vicious rant of an elderly bar-cafe owner who was incensed that two "homos" had come in the night before and ordered dinner. She said that if her bar regulars had been there (it was darts tournament night) things would have gone badly for them. ‘Brokeback’ was constructed on the small but tight idea of a couple of home-grown country kids, opinions and self-knowledge shaped by the world around them, finding themselves in emotional waters of increasing depth.”

Proulx’s method of literary creation—keen but superficial observations which excite her imagination along lines that have been influenced by her lifelong loves and hates—help us to understand both the high quality of her prose and its weaknesses. To the extent that her work is taken from life she is very good, to the extent that it becomes burdened by an overload of personal baggage her work becomes strained and false. But before demonstrating some of these strengths and weaknesses, it is important to examine what is meant by “homophobia,” since that seems to be what started it all.

“Homophobia” is a word that came into being around 1969 with “Gay Liberation.” It was coined by Time Magazine and elaborated by Martin Weinberg of the Kinsey Institute as a term with a great deal of psychological freight. It soon came to be a way of paying back the mental health establishment, a kind of turnabout. In the days before Gay Lib, homosexuality was thought of by psychiatrists as a form of psychopathology, with the implication that it can and should be changed or cured. With the arrival of Gay Liberation in the 70s it was the gay establishment’s turn. Under political pressure the term “Homosexuality” was removed from the Diagnostic Statistical Manual—the bible of psychiatric administrators—as a pathological entity and began to be thought of by gay activists and their supporters in the liberal media as “normal” in the sense that one was born with the trait, like blue eyes or left-handedness—a normal variation.

Homophobia, it was now proclaimed, was what was pathological, with its own psychodynamic patterns—a fear of homosexuals, some psychologists speculated—and thus should be treated and cured by re-education, brainwashing.

Like some kind of expanding, space-occupying monster, the meanings of the word “homophobia” in the homophilic media continued to grow from year to year, so that now there are almost as many meanings as there are people who use the word. It is, of course, not a scientific or medical term, like claustrophobia or agoraphobia, which are clinical syndromes with long histories associated with them and an extensive psychiatric and psychological literature that can be studied and investigated. It has no standard or universally recognized set of descriptors. For some it may apply to people who commit so-called “Hate Crimes”—those who assault, kill, or manifestly abuse homosexuals, criminal behavior whether hate is involved or not. For others it means any form of expressed opinion which may be inimical to homosexuals and/or their values. For yet others it may refer to anybody who engages in rational discourse—policy makers for example, or scholars who hold opinions about homosexual issues that are in opposition to those held by the gay establishment. The latter by this time is a powerful army made up of three divisions: gifted, articulate, well-funded, gay men and women activists; a large and sympathetic component of media people in Hollywood, journalism, and television; and the softer disciplines of the academy—the social sciences, schools of education, and the humanities.

The same kind of dangerous overgeneralization that was used to characterize previous social victims—Jews, homosexuals, blacks—now operates on anyone who is brave or foolhardy enough to express politically incorrect views on gay issues. Since “homophobic” can mean murderer as well as dissenter, it has connotations of dangerousness and intolerance, in the way that all Jews were Christ-killers and usurers, all Blacks were rapists of white women, and homosexuals were pedophiles.

Ms. Proulx likes to write about life in the cooler part of rural North America—between the 40th and 50th parallel—and between Newfoundland and Wyoming. Proulx stories are stories about people living hardscrabble lives in situations that can only get worse—the land is being used up, or the sea is being fished out, victims of time and place—and how they respond. “If you can’t fix it you’ve got to stand it,” says Ennis Del Mar, one of the two young protagonists in “Brokeback Mountain.” It is this platitude that informs his narrow, dreary life. His longtime friend and lover, Jack Twist, cannot live according to Ennis’s drab slogan and dies trying to escape it.

“Brokeback” and its problems center on the ambiguities of love and sex. It is to Ms. Proulx’s credit that she never uses the word “love” in the story. But it’s there nonetheless. There is some mysterious force at work between the two men that holds them together for twenty years, and the reader wonders what it is.

When gay writers talk about homosexuality in public it often suits their rhetorical needs to use the word “love” as a euphemism for sex. Here, for example, is Tony Kushner on the subject. “The way you give love is the most profoundly human part of you. When people say it’s ugly or a perversion or an abomination, they’re attacking the center of your being.” Since no one considers the emotional component of love between men, such as the love between fathers and sons or close friends, to be perverse or ugly, what he means when he says “give love” in this case is have sex. And to refer to having sex as “profoundly human” is baffling. Having sex is the thing we have in common with all mammalian species. Conventionally what we mean when we use rhetorical phrases like “profoundly human” is the very opposite of having sex—what we usually mean is something that has to do with soul or spirit or mind rather than genitals.

This euphemistic usage of the word love is a development which occurred after the onset of AIDS in the early eighties. Before that time love was an important aspect in a homosexual relationship mainly in more or less stable couples who cared about one another above and beyond their sexual relationship. This state accounted for about 25% or 30% of homosexuals in the seventies according to the work of the Kinsey Institute. To the other 70% or 75% of gay men stability and loving relationships were merely rhetorical. The majority of gay men wanted complete and unbridled sexual freedom at the time of the story (before AIDS) and non-sexual love and commitment were not high on their agenda.

Proulx’s story has many first-rate qualities but its understanding of male psychology is not one of them.

It’s a story that hates men—fathers in particular. There are three fathers and one father-figure in the story. All are depicted as “duck studs,” brutal and cruel in the service of teaching manliness. The movie goes even further, turning every man with a speaking part into a crude, drunken, violent fool.

“Write about what you know!” The advice comes ringing down the ages from every great writer. But Proulx does not seem to know much about male sexuality, or homosexuality, or even maleness in general, or what it means to be a man. And because she has her own agenda for the story, she has to create characters who will fulfill that agenda, rather than creating real characters who will find their own fates.

What is her agenda? Homophobes are the real problem for loving men. This theme requires that she invent a story about true love (not merely sex) between two unambiguously gay men that must have a tragic end in a place like “homophobic rural Wyoming” which is “the land of the Great Pure Noble Cowboy.” Her agenda is to diminish the iconic myth and to show them as fatuous brutes.

Because of the heavy message burden the film has to deliver there is much that is bogus and inauthentic. The first things are the boys’ personae. They are supposed to be dirt poor, high school dropouts, ignorant, not very bright, inarticulate. One, Ennis, is chronically depressed, the other, Jack, affably sociopathic. Instead of being played by gorgeous, well- built movie stars with perfect teeth and bodies and wearing their $99 cowboy hats, they should be played by actors like Steve Buscemi with his mouth full of rotten teeth and Michael J. Pollard with dirty fingernails and with both wearing old beat-up $19 straw ranch-hand’s hats.

The nature scenes, the bars, the grubby plastic furniture, all contribute to a sense of pseudo-authenticity that masks the phoniness of the extraordinarily attractive and charming movie stars trying to play impoverished, ignorant, inarticulate, rural boobs. In the movie Jack appears smart enough to become a crack salesman demonstrating complex farm equipment; in the story he’s not competent enough to do anything but hold onto a bucking bull.

But most of all, the phoniness is in the character inconsistencies and the lack of understanding of men—their sexuality, their homosexuality—making them act according to some preordained plan instead of like real men or real homosexuals, all in the service of fulfilling the theme of the story—“destructive rural homophobia.”

Although there are inconsistencies and falseness in Ennis’s character (his adolescent schoolgirl reaction to Jack’s return after a four year absence) the major problem is with Jack Twist. Jack is the instigator of sexual intimacy with Ennis. And the sexual hunger that is shown repeatedly in the story suggests that he has little or no conflict about his intense passive homosexual wishes. A homosexual man with such intense needs as Jack, which are not satisfied by means of his heterosexual relationship, will not usually wait four years or even four weeks to have his sexual needs satisfied. It just doesn’t work that way in real life. He is the kind of homosexual who has no trouble finding ways to satisfy these sexual yearnings. And Proulx shows us nothing in Jack’s behavior that might suggest any conflict about these feelings. The only thing that deters him from visiting Ennis more frequently is Ennis. Why does he put up with this sexual deprivation? Because the author’s agenda demands it. Proulx’s plan requires that the story be touching and tragic. Unless, by the story’s end, the reader/viewer empathizes with Ennis and hates homophobes she will not have achieved her aim. And the key to that is that the two must love each other in an unselfish, non-sexual way.

Proulx tries to establish this in the central literary moment in the story, near the end, meant to explain Jack’s motivation for his strange relationship with Ennis:
“What Jack remembered and craved in a way he could neither help nor understand was the time that distant summer on Brokeback when Ennis had come up behind him and pulled him close, the silent embrace satisfying some shared and sexless hunger.
“They had stood that way for a long time in front of the fire, its burning tossing ruddy chunks of light, the shadow of their bodies a single column against the rock. The minutes ticked by from the round watch in Ennis's pocket, from the sticks in the fire settling into coals. Stars bit through the wavy heat layers above the fire. Ennis's breath came slow and quiet, he hummed, rocked a little in the sparklight and Jack leaned against the steady heartbeat, the vibrations of the humming like faint electricity and, standing, he fell into sleep that was not sleep but something else drowsy and tranced until Ennis, dredging up a rusty but still useable phrase from the childhood time before his mother died, said, "Time to hit the hay, cowboy. I got a go. Come on, you're sleepin on your feet like a horse," and gave Jack a shake, a push, and went off in the darkness. Jack heard his spurs tremble as he mounted, the words "see you tomorrow," and the horse's shuddering snort, grind of hoof on stone.
“Later, that dozy embrace solidified in his memory as the single moment of artless, charmed happiness in their separate and difficult lives. Nothing marred it, even the knowledge that Ennis would not then embrace him face to face because he did not want to see nor feel that it was Jack he held. And maybe, he thought, they'd never got much farther than that. Let be, let be.”
The excerpt above arouses deep suspicion. It is quite unique in the story—quite different from the writing in the rest of it. It is deeply emotional and elegiacal, qualitatively different from the cool, dry narrative that surrounds it. It sounds like it came from deep within Proulx’s life experience. “Write what you know!” Having raised two sons it would not be surprising to know that she was able to reconnect with a touching moment in her own life to provide this scene with the necessary feeling.

Why is this scene so important and necessary? Proulx worked on the story for six months, twice the length of time that it usually takes for her to write a novel, she says, having revised the story sixty times. And guess what was the most difficult scene for her to write? The scene above.

This epiphanous moment has power and would explain Jack’s prolonged fixation on Ennis if it were consistent with anything else about Jack—but it is not. So we have only the author’s word for the power of this recollection.

This is only the latest film of many plays and films of the past thirty-five years that form part of the gay agenda to create a romance about gayness, just as, at one time, Hollywood created a romance about cowboys—brave, true, shy, handsome, modest, and sober. Today and for the past generation Hollywood and the media portray gays as charming, lovable, vulnerable, and gifted; and as victims—of AIDS (striking out of some indeterminate source), homophobia, or some governmental or religious prejudice.

This romantic model is as phoney as the old cowboy model but what is important is that it serves the political aims of gay activists—currently gay marriage.

The realities are more complex, more varied, and more interesting. First, some of the realities about the gay life. Approximately three percent of the population may be homosexual, depending on how it is defined and measured demographically. This group is very varied, by age of onset, race, class, choice of sex-object, mode of gratification, pattern of behavior, etc. About 35 percent of all homosexual males have stable, well-adjusted relationships. These are closed couples held together by strong affectionate bonds and living lives much as heterosexual couples might. The remainder of the population do not have stable commitments and prefer freedom and independence. It is from this latter group that dangerous sexual behavior may emerge: “bareback riding” (unprotected sex); promiscuity; “gift-giving” (homosexuals infected with HIV virus who want to transmit the virus to those who don’t have it); “bug chasing” (men who do not have AIDS but want to acquire it); as well as other dangerous activities, none of which would fit the romance of gayness.

Now, some of the realities about homophobic crimes—murder and manslaughter—so-called hate crimes. Hate crimes are acts you hear quite a lot about in the homophilic media. The FBI has kept records of such crimes since 1995. If you look into these records, you will find that the number of murders and/or manslaughters against male homosexuals number between two and six in any year between 1995 and 2004. Only one of these occurred in Wyoming—in 1998. Most of them tend to occur in California, New York and Texas. So much for Ms. Proulx’s destructive rural homophobia. Of course even two murders a year against male homosexuals is too much. But strangely enough we hear very little outcry and protest when you look into the number of deaths of male homosexuals caused by AIDS—10,000 in any year. Such facts do not contribute to the romance of gayness.





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Interesting article. I too took that test and an graded a High Grade Non Homophobic mostly because I do not fear homosexuals nor hate them nor gossip about them nor am I obsessed with the sexuality of the people in the circle of my life. I also am not obsessed with other bodily functions or scatological details. I freely admit I do avoid vulgar hedonists of all varieties. I also avoid noise and overly amplified music. I also avoid vulgar and disrespectful language to anyone. I am very aware of course that homosexuality has been considered a perversion of the natural order of the sexes, traditionally, in the culture in which I was raised. Nonetheless, I was always taught not to be cruel to others and not to judge harshly lest I be judged. Some people believe tht homosexuality is a threat to human society but it is quite clear to me that many people of peculiar sexual habits (including heterosexuals) have made notable contributions to human society. I know historically that homosexuality has always coexisted with heterosexuality and its existence is not really a big concern for me. I am more concerned with the spreading Sangerite Cult of Childlessness and hedonism among healthy heterosexuals. When I play a song or a sonata or read a poem I do not judge the song on the basis of the gender, religion or sexual proclivities of the artist. For example Walt Whitman and Garcia Lorca are among the greatest poets of their respective languages in the past two hundred years. But their sexual interests just like their culinary interests or their scatological habits are not interesting to me except as a footnote. The sin in a homosexual relationship, as in all sexuality comes when it is a lustful and narcissistic escape from the responsibility for human growth. But there is nothing evil, per se, in being asexual, in being homosexual in one's tendencies anymore than there is something wrong in being strongly heterosexual or being strongly attached to being regular in one's bowel movements. I think it fairly clear that we must eat and defecate to live and if we eat well and healthily and in moderation we will live better and longer. I also believe that sexual pleasure, like wine and whiskey was given for our (temperate) pleasure and is natural. Sexual attraction is primarily about reproduction but not exclusively. It is also a basic human need and instinct. Without this instinct the human race would have vanished long ago. In fact the Shakers have vanished because they ignored this very natural instinct. Similarly, if we try to control or obliterate this instinct by embracing a Culture of Death and sterility we will follow the path of Sexual Suicide that the Shakers followed. The wrongness attached to the sexual act is the wrongness of care for personal hygiene and the wrongness of irresponsible sexual "acts". Mind you heterosexuals can be irresponsible in the same way. The wrongness of all such behavior is wild hedonism and a lack of restraint and temperance. The deliberate abuse of one's sexual powers is seriously wrong AND OFTEN CONTRIBUTES TO THE ABUSE OF INNOCENTS AND THE DESTRUCTION OF THE PERSONAL HAPPINESS OF OTHERS. I do not pretend to understand homosexuality. I do understand -if darkly- Don Juanism- though I have never had strong tendencies that way. I think this is because I love and respect others. I have been attracted to many single, attractive women and many have been available to me. But I showed them greater love in my true friendship and chastity by my telling them I was married and my helping them and encouraging them to meet good single men. From the very start I was honest about the fullest extent our relationship could be. And now in many instances I am still the close friend of both spouses. I would not exchange ten years, twenty years or in some cases thirty years of friendship for the memory of one moment of selfish lust. It just wasn't that important and it would have been in each case a lie and hurtful especially to the younger trustful person. I can only speak from the male point of view. A healthy male from adolescence until a considerable age will be drawn to sexual union with females. Some males have such a powerful sex drive that they are drawn to sexual union or physical contact with anything that moves, male, female, animal, vegetable or mineral. Some are drawn to children. I fully admit to having felt physically attracted to persons of the opposite sex ages 16-65 but I can honestly say I have never been the least aroused or interested in children male or female (let us consider 16 year old girls to be physically women) nor in males. It seems a normal instinct to "wake up" and be ready to form a new relationship at any time at least for a male. But of course a married men soon forgets about these momentary fancies. Most men satisfy their need and then forget about what they thought about yesterday or one hour ago. This also seems to be a natural tendency of males. They find what they want and then go on to something else. Some people seem more obsessed with this sexual congress than others to the point of not even washing their hands or taking any precautions. I suppose I am of the variety which thinks 'cleanliness is next to godliness'. A woman is a woman but a cigar is a good smoke, Kipling said and though i do not smoke I understand the sentiment. I might say a woman is a woman but "Tha uisge beatha aon braich deoch gle mhath" that is to say a SINGLE MALT IS A VERY GOOD DRINK. We are in a tarnish Silver Age for the stage and for film. Recently I saw PETRIFIED FOREST and the 1935 Mutiny on the Bounty with me son ( I also have read the books and the plays and we discussed the similarities and differences). Compared to the junk that is made today Robert Sherwood is Shakespeare and Shaw combined. My sister is an actress and has lived on the fringe of the World of Hollywood. A more pathetic and boring crowd I cannot imagine. Film makers do not seem to read or think very much anymore but they seem dedicated not merely to gayness but the romance of easy sexuality and a morality of 'heaven knows anything goes'. I fully admit I loved the fantasy world of the Cowboy Gentleman just as I love and still love the fantasy world of the Knight and Highland Gentleman. To the end of my days I hope I am regarded as a Gentleman who is most aware of his Highland roots which means I do not associate skirts with cross-dressing but with military valor, cabers, honor and freedom. From business perspective it should be obvious that gay propaganda movies are not big hits with the public. I am sure DVD's and VHS of John Wayne, Gary Cooper and Jimmy Stewart westerns plus Mel Gibson films will far out sell Gay Pride Propaganda movies. I speak only for myself of course but I have much contact with the younger generation through my students and children. People in the Walmart Heartland are not interested in Gay themes. They are interested in Rock and Roll and Sexuality as well as adventure and violence. There is a cult like attraction to ultra macho gangs and ultra violence. There is no doubt that there is almost as much contempt for homosexuals as there is for "lily-livered liberals and d*k*s" as one associate put it the other day. I don't habitually use such offensive language and I only with hesitation even make reference to it because people are not interested in the Gay Agenda and when it is thrust upon them they react with boredom (usually) or with impatience. In fact the word Gay is used all the time in a non-gay sense but in a negative sense. I was astonished to be told I was 'gay' but then I realized this only meant I was foolish or old-fashioned or nonconforming or dumb. Dumb movies are dumb and I hope Hollywood will learn to make good decision. If not I will refuse to go to the movies. As it is the Internet and Videogames are much much bigger with young people. Movies are almost obsolete the way black and white films or silent films or the Latin mass is obsolete for so many. But one final word and this is something I try to share with all my students (both secular and religious). Sexuality is NOT LOVE. Love is much bigger than EROTIC LOVE (sexuality).four Greek words for our word love. THESE ARE THE FOUR LOVES. They are: 1)"storge" (natural AFFECTION as between parents and children) 2)"philia" (friendship PLATONIC LOVE), 3) "eros" (sexual, EROTIC LOVE or romantic love) 4)"AGAPE" which is altruistic love, selfless love, CHARITY. One need not be a Christian to express or enjoy altruistic or selfless love, of course. To me there is nothing higher than the love of marriage -which is between a man an a woman- because a good marriage encompasses ALL THE FOUR LOVES and even though the EROS may diminish with time all the other loves grow deeper. The greatest happiness is seeking balance in ones life between all the loves. It is a mistake, in my opinion, for anyone heterosexual or homosexual to be obsessed only with erotic satisfaction. THE VALUE OF THE GIFTS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT WHICH INCLUDES HUMAN SEXUALITY ARE ALWAYS DETERMINED BY THE WAY THEY ARE USED OR THEIR END OR PURPOSE THEY MUST BE USED IN LOVE OR THEY ARE WORTHLESS.; THEIR HIGHEST PURPOSE IS THE COMMON GOOD (1 Cor 13) …..And if I have the gift of prophecy and comprehend all mysteries and all knowledge; if I have all faith so as to move mountains but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away everything I own, and if I hand my body over so that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing. 4 3 Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, 5 it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, 6 it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 UBI CARITAS EST VERO EST VERO DEUS IBI EST (WHERE THERE IS CHARITY-LOVE-'TIS TRUE 'TIS TRUE THERE GOD IS!) Sexual intimacy is a great gift and a great power as strong as a great river. It can be compared to a beautiful, pure lake teeming with life formed above a dam. Properly channeled the water provides life, what the Spanish call a remanso de paz y belleza - a haven of peace and beauty- but if uncontrolled havoc, hurt, disease, death and destruction will surely follow. How will we know what is right and what is wrong? The wisest of teachers knew history would be the final judge: we shall know a society and a culture but its fruits. What is good and healthy and strong will endure and what is not will die out a la the Shakers and their ilk. Demography which is a nice way of saying LIFE is destiny. LIFE ALWAYS WINS OVER DEATH. The point is not 'gayness' the point is pointless hedonism is a dead end.
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Posted by: Richard "Ricardo" Munro [TypeKey Profile Page] at January 14, 2006 01:24 PM

"Homophobia" is a cleverly tendentious, loaded word that implies pathology for those who disagree with the agenda of leftwing gay activists.
When I'm found out to be a baseball fan, the reponse by some is "Baseball! It's slow and boring and stupid. I hate it." If I try to explain the appeal of the game, I'm usually told that they have no interest. I suppose I could coin a new "disease"--Baseballophobia--and explain that their dislike of our national pastime indicates some deepseated sickness or I could simply except that not everyone is attracted to the same thing and curb my temptation to proselytize.

Posted by: Mark_Belt [TypeKey Profile Page] at January 14, 2006 02:10 PM

Dear Mark : I know exactly what you mean. But the same people probably think chess is boring or passe too. Barzun called baseball 'living chess' and this is an excellent description. I like Soccer but Baseball is by far and away the most soothing and most interesting sport particularly in person. I love it on the radio as well and listen to most of my games on the radio or the Internet. Baseball is not the top TV sport because the small screen is like watching the game through a porthole. It seems as if there is no action when there is always a lot of movement.

One of the most exciting plays I ever saw in person was when Tommie Agee circa 1969-1970 stole home against the Dodgers. But the TV cameras like the Dodgers were caught napping and it most of the excitement was missed. My mother was watching it at home and didn't even realize what was happening. We,my late father and I, were right on the third base line in the Mezzanine area. We saw Agee inch off more and more. It was one the most exciting plays I have ever seen ! People who don't enjoy baseball don't know what they are missing and yes perhaps they DO suffer from Baseballophobia or at the very least a deeply ingrained prejudice against AMERICA"S GREAT GAME.
Baseball has given me many hours of delight and it is a shared pleasure I have had with my son, particularly. He is lucky enough now to room with Tom Candiotti's son at Arizona State and so he gets to meet lots of ball players like Randy Johnson.
He is in sports heaven! His room mate now has season tickets. That was something i only dreamed of when i was a kid. SEASON TICKETS and first dibs for the WORLD SERIES.

By the way one of my favorite baseball movies is IT HAPPENS EVERY SPRING based on the charming novella by Valentine Davies (he wrote Miracle on 34th st also made into a successful picture). Ray Milland plays the part of a college instructor who every spring goes into a baseball daze. By chance he discovers a wood repelling juice and he quits everything to join the bigs and of course leads the Cardinals to the championship. Real old fashioned fun. Not a F word in it if you don't count fun, finger and first base.

Posted by: Richard "Ricardo" Munro [TypeKey Profile Page] at January 15, 2006 02:28 AM

Dear Mark : I know exactly what you mean. But the same people probably think chess is boring or passe too. Barzun called baseball 'living chess' and this is an excellent description. I like Soccer but Baseball is by far and away the most soothing and most interesting sport particularly in person. I love it on the radio as well and listen to most of my games on the radio or the Internet. Baseball is not the top TV sport because the small screen is like watching the game through a porthole. It seems as if there is no action when there is always a lot of movement.

One of the most exciting plays I ever saw in person was when Tommie Agee circa 1969-1970 stole home against the Dodgers. But the TV cameras like the Dodgers were caught napping and it most of the excitement was missed. My mother was watching it at home and didn't even realize what was happening. We,my late father and I, were right on the third base line in the Mezzanine area. We saw Agee inch off more and more. It was one the most exciting plays I have ever seen ! People who don't enjoy baseball don't know what they are missing and yes perhaps they DO suffer from Baseballophobia or at the very least a deeply ingrained prejudice against AMERICA"S GREAT GAME.
Baseball has given me many hours of delight and it is a shared pleasure I have had with my son, particularly. He is lucky enough now to room with Tom Candiotti's son at Arizona State and so he gets to meet lots of ball players like Randy Johnson.
He is in sports heaven! His room mate now has season tickets. That was something i only dreamed of when i was a kid. SEASON TICKETS and first dibs for the WORLD SERIES.

By the way one of my favorite baseball movies is IT HAPPENS EVERY SPRING based on the charming novella by Valentine Davies (he wrote Miracle on 34th st also made into a successful picture). Ray Milland plays the part of a college instructor who every spring goes into a baseball daze. By chance he discovers a wood repelling juice and he quits everything to join the bigs and of course leads the Cardinals to the championship. Real old fashioned fun. Not a F word in it if you don't count fun, finger and first base.

Posted by: Richard "Ricardo" Munro [TypeKey Profile Page] at January 15, 2006 02:29 AM

Ricardo,Just to say how much I enjoyed your post.An extraordinary and transforming thing the internet .You are suddenly faced with everthing you try to articulate but much better put and you did just that .Thanks.

Posted by: Dr.D. [TypeKey Profile Page] at January 15, 2006 01:24 PM

Dear Ricardo:

Does your son play for ASU? And if so, has he learned how to throw a knuckleball from his roommate's dad?

Posted by: Mark_Belt [TypeKey Profile Page] at January 15, 2006 01:46 PM

Baseball-Phobia
Yes you made the right call. Baseball represents repression to many of the self made victims in our society. I am sure if you were to poll subscribers of Gay publications, their number one sport of choice would be soccer. Now-Now, do not get mad at me for that opinion, but its twoo, its twoo. If you were to poll the Arts societies, we would find the same popularity. I have art on my wall created by a skilled baseball player, so there is exception, just like a catcher for the Mets with a neatly trimmed moustache can be hetero .I do think Liberals sport of choice is soccer, because it represents peoples of inexpensive land. As cute as a UPS commercial is showing the friendly delivery man kicking the soccer ball back to a child on a cobble stone alleyway, indoctrination is indoctrination. I do not take pride in sports that made France mediocre, but since the left of this nation despise many things that set this nation apart, teaching our children to be like them is indoctrination of its own. The WTO demonstrators that broke windows and tipped over cars in this country were not baseball players, but they will be the first to play the great international recess activity known as soccer. Poll a group of people sympathetic to suicide bombers and soccer is numero uno. Where is ZOGBY when I need them.

Posted by: akabaseball [TypeKey Profile Page] at January 19, 2006 12:13 PM

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